Your Orgasms Have Secrets!
Let talk orgasms!
I wanna hear you moan. Just joking, I absolutely do not ever want to hear you moan!
Fun fact about me, every time I used to orgasm, I would have a vision of myself climbing a mountain and the climax was always me standing on the top in the sunrise. Then I would come out of the vision and say to my ex, I just don’t know where I go but it’s always the top of a mountain.
I’ve done that thing now. Climbed a couple of mountains and stood in the sunrise. The feeling I have at the peak of the mountain is pure connection. With myself. It is a state of complete being and my God I love it!
Another fun fact. I never used to be able to surrender to an orgasm. I had to do it myself, meaning, I had to be the one controlling it. No matter how great anything felt, even Sunday sex after a night of snorting coke, nope…I had to control it.
I used to google articles, well we used to google articles, on how I could allow myself to be brought to orgasm and none of it worked. It was fun trying though haha.
Surrender To The Feels
One day I decided to just fucken surrender. Let go.
I started to let my body go wherever it went and not only was I able to orgasm far more easily but, I started to have multiple orgasms. But wait, it doesn’t end there. After a few months of this, I was able to surrender to the sensations so much so that I had multiple on multiple on multiple orgasms. I’m talking like 30 orgasms during 12 hours of all the things.
That term “spent”…yup. So exhausting but also so liberating and addictive.
Sex Coach or Parenting Coach?
I know plenty of woman who can orgasm easily and with anyone. I also know plenty of woman who can never orgasm unless its masturbation or clit stimulation. 𝙎𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙨 𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙬 75% 𝙤𝙛 𝙬𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙣 𝙘𝙖𝙣𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙤𝙧𝙜𝙖𝙨𝙢 𝙙𝙪𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚 𝙖𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙚.
No I haven’t turned into a sex coach, there is a link to this and parenting. (Its how you make babies! The contracting muscles during a female orgasm assists the sperm in reaching the egg. So, make sure you orgasm together if you wanna increase baby making.)
Your relationship to orgasms; when you can, when you can’t, how you do, how you dont, who you will, who you wont; can teach you SO MUCH about how you show up in life.
Surrender Is A Decision.
Me – I was a total control freak. Even with someone I had been fucking for like 14 years, I had to control my own orgasm.
Surrender is a decision.
Instantaneous. I only do things once I decide and the minute I decide, it is done. I won’t orgasm with someone I don’t love. Sorry any boy I’ve slept with in the past 2 years…I just won’t. I save that for someone I love, I’m not going to stand at the top of a mountain with just anyone. (connection.)
Once I decide to surrender I nek level things over and over.
If I’m open, I’m open and I go deep.
How Do You Orgasm?
I encourage you to explore the nature of your orgasms. Are they tension orgasms where you must tighten all your muscles to cum, or are they relaxation orgasms where you can deep breathe through them and take it deeper and longer?
Are you in need of control or do you allow the other party to take you there? Are you weird like me and disappear into a vision during your climax?
Every emotion, feeling and sensation we have tells us how we show up in life. This is just another example of how we have ALL the answers of how we be and how to change right inside of us. You don’t need a guru. You don’t need a psychic. You need to explore your behavior.
If you are the tension control freak too, that’s OK, just notice how that shows up in your parenting and relationships and learn how to surrender because I am promising you multiple on multiple is doing the work for!
Understand how to interpret your guidance so that you
can feel confident in the decisions you make.
UNDERSTAND YOUR INTUITION WORKSHOP
Schedule: Workshop Schedule. New Zealand Time. St Andrews, Hamilton.
06 December 8pm | 4th Janurary 8pm | 7th Feb 8pm |
About The Workshop
Confidence comes from being able to trust in yourself. Your intuition is your superpower. Everyone has intuition but the issue is most people don’t know how to interpret it.
Join me in an evening where I will guide you into hearing what your intuition is saying to you.
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐬.
👉 Self care, self love, confidence courage… All of it stems back to one simple thing… Trusting ourselves.
Our intuition is always speaking to us but if we don’t know how to hear it, nothing changes. We continue to ask others how we should run our lives. We search for opinions and guidance externally.
I’m super passionate about empowering people to connect to their inner knowing because as we gain the ability to trust ourselves, we change the dynamic of our earth and our people.Confidence comes from being able to trust in yourself. Your intuition is your superpower.
What Happens On The Night
♥ 𝙃𝙚𝙧𝙚’𝙨 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙞𝙩 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠𝙨 ♥
I will set up the space. Meaning, I will bring the feel good vibes. Yummy smells, nature, pastels, peppermint tea and chocolate, crystals, oracle cards and ME!
I’ll lead everyone into a safe space, crank the music and you will draw. Along the way I’ll answer your questions, point out any blocks you have and pull cards for you.
After the first half of the session I will guide you into writing your intentions and interpreting what you have on your paper. I’ll teach you how to interpret.
Then we can chit chat if there is time left. To be honest, I’ll prob talk until I all asleep so no worries here!
For those who like more details see below. Just remember that this is intuitively led so it may change slightly.
———part one ———
1- You turn up and awkwardly say hi to the people you don’t know and tell me it feels really nice in my home and what is that wonderful smell?
2- you get comfy and ill set the tone for the evening with a small visualisation exercise.
3- you put pastel to paper with no idea of what you are drawing.
4 – we pull guidance cards based on the drawing.
5- you write you intentions for the coming month.
1- We go over the drawings and I teach you/coach you into how to interpret the drawing and cards.
2- we get naked and run around chanting. Joking, screw that. We drink tea and eat chocolate and chat
3- I close out the drawings with a grounding technique.
4- I tell you to buy my book if you want or at least tell people about it.
$𝟏𝟓𝐩𝐩 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐭𝐨𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐨𝐟 𝟗 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞.
You bring a A2 piece of card, a cushion to sit on and an intention of being coachable.
EMPOWERMENT is the goal.
I Work With People At All Stages
Business owners, mums, dads, creatives, light-workers and entrepreneurs. Some are completely overwhelmed and at the point of a break down and are looking to not feel so afraid. Some are having private panic attacks behind closed doors and are seeking human connection. Some are just plain overwhelmed and anxious looking for tips and tools to get organised. All are ready to start sorting out their lives and creating a well run home.
It's Also For Men
Men are valuable and they offer an insight that woman wish they had. Having men and woman in this group allows for open dialogue for us to better understand the opposite sex in our homes better. I am all about women’s empowerment but I am not about emasculating our men. Woman also have an insight many men are searching for. Listen, if we discover you need to leave your relationship cool, Ill support you in that. But maybe you just need some clearer perspective on the lover in your life, and a mixed group allows for this.
Alot Of People Are Shy To Begin With
Alot of people feel shy coming into a group setting with a bunch of randoms. Dont worry Ill be keeping an eye on you. No one will make you speak if you don’t choose to and you have free choice the whole way through. You actually will probably find that you make some friends that understand you.
Full moon Group is about letting go of what no longer serves us so we can create space for things that we want.
And furthermore, it is about digging deeper to find what it is that it is that we need to let go of.
This online support group is co-hosted and is super fun. We piggy bank off the moons powerful energies and we get down to business.
There are practical tools to move us through letting go, and also some fun energetic tools.
We also host a new moon group for creating new magic in our lives.
If you need more personalised support apply for my 1:1 program.
NO CHARGE. Contact me to reserve.
This interactive online workshop will be co-hosted, where we will look at what it is you are working towards bringing into your life.
We will give tools and strategies to actually making this a reality so you can live your best life.
This is a fun workshop held on the new moon so you can take advantage of the natural earths energies to amplify and speed up the manifesting in your life.
We also host a full moon group to letting go and clearing the blocks that stop us from achieving our desires.
$10 per person.
If you are looking for a lead in to coaching, buy my book.
If you are looking for 1:1 coaching only please look into the All In Nurture Program.