Shitty relationships can confuse the shit out of people. Leaving will devastate the kids you say? Come on now, every time they see you being treated like absolute shit it devastates them. Ohh, and wait until they start treating you the same way.
That funkn motherhood guilt. The thing that cripples you and haunts you at night ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
When you have a baby you don’t get a get out of jail free card, you don’t suddenly get all the answers. You don’t get a bucket of self love and self worth.. You don’t get immunity against people’s bullshit and your insecurities.
Sometimes we can’t see what’s really happening. The are blind to the truth. We can’t stop loving the very thing that’s hurting our children. We allow bad situations to get worse. Addictions, Abuse, Neglect, Relationships. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I often think about why it’s so hard that accept the truth. Why we deny our intuition and the facts. The fear of leaving can be paralysing.
The thing is though, with leaving, there is a light at the end of that tunnel. You have a focus to better your life and you work that focus. ⠀⠀
But in staying, when you know inside your heart it won’t get better, there is no light or tunnel. It’s just a deep dark shitty hole.
You can choose to parent with intention by choosing to live with intention.
Don’t ask why you stay, ask how you can improve your life.
Kicks off 10th September 2019
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