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Anger, Hate, Fuck, Fall, Repeat

Breaking up is one thing, but what about when we cant stop the sex?

“I fall for the physical… I can’t get any deeper and I’m freaking out coz he’s coming over tomorrow”


For alot of us, we use sex to manipulate and feel powerful. That’s another article though because today, I want to show you real emotions during a severing of an emotional fuck affair.

Okay okay, it was just a separation, but that sounded way more juicy.

The truth is, if your bodies are putty in the mans hand then we don’t stand a chance of teaching our daughters that love is not blowjobs in an alley way.

A separation is a separation and the sooner we realise how we use sex the same way we use drugs, the sooner we can find solutions to wean ourselves off it.


Transcripts Of Client Messages

"I can not do this to child. I will not do this to her. I simply can not. She is just so amazing she needs to see what it's like for me to truly be through the other side. I don't know what I'm worth but I know what she's worth and she's worth everything I have and more."

""I wanted to give him everything All The money My love everything. I just breathed. And stayed put. It was hard"

""I found it hard to come out of the room i just wanted to laugh But I bit my cheeks came over, He said hey. And some shit but I dunno I didn't speak... Couldn't. As soon as he left I notice I'm hot as fuck. Hearts racing. And then I start dry retching. And this like nervous feeling in my chest. Isn't it fucked up. Then I think I'm mean how I ignored him and he's trying to tell me he has my earrings (the ones I adore).. I feel like a kid."

"Your tone of voice (it was the only thing I could process at the time)"

""You know honestly, if you hadn't have called I would have let it happen.. And now I know I need to sort myself out so I don't even need someone to call me to snap me out of it

"It's sounds stupid.. But the physiology in my body when we are close by.. Or even its like he knows when I'm out and about.. When I'm not he's quiet How do I find this deeper thingo"

""What do I need to do to overcome this? I can't think proper about it. I just start to feel and my body takes over its crazy."

""And truth be told.. I got my fix. From someone else. . Best ever phone sex of my entire fucking life... But now I want that.... And I know its playing with fire... Like I can suddenly see how he had an affair.. And how people ruin marriages for a fix"

"My cycle Angry hate him Sex Down and out Repeat"

""Fuck I feel like I was just wasted (frenzy) or something and now I feel exhausted wtf just happened to me. I've told him I'll push her out the door. And I will. And I'm just gonna breathe. (which is harder than it sounds lol) And meditate. And sleep. I feel like vomiting or crying... Can't do either. This is fucking weird. I can not do this to child. I will not do this to her. I simply can not. She is just so amazing she needs to see what it's like for me to truly be through the other side. I don't know what I'm worth but I know what she's worth and she's worth everything I have and more."

"As soon as he left I notice I'm hot as fuck. Hearts racing. And then I start dry retching. And this like nervous feeling in my chest"

People roll there eyes when separated people continue to have sex. 

They don’t realise the torture and pain it is for the people involved and that it is so much harder than it looks. 

Addictions with sex are a real thing and they are not exclusive to a certain type.

I know without support that this particular woman would have slept with her ex, and it would have spiraled her backwards about 6 months.

She has managed to now be 9 months sex free from her ex, and even celibate for 4.5 months.

If you are looking for support and need to stop dropping your panties for your ex, my 1:1 program or my retreat program may well be for you.

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