CONSCIOUS FAMILY DYNAMICS LTD
BE CONFIDENT BEING YOU
PARENT WITH PATIENCE
FUCK WITH PASSION
WORK WITH LOVE
I specialise in coaching people in figuring our WHO they are, WHAT their purpose is and HOW to make it a reality.
BE SUPPORTED | GAIN CLARITY | FEEL CONNECTED | LIVE CONFIDENTLY
Hi you guys, I'm April B
Born and bred in New Zealand where I live with my 7 year old daughter. A lover of all things spiritual, plants and a good dance. I’m not for everyone, but I may well be for you.
𝗜 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘀𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗳𝗶𝗴𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗪𝗛𝗢 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗿𝗲, 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗛𝗢𝗪 𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗶𝘁 𝗮 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆
- Support you from feeling unsafe to courage
- Guide you from confusion to clarity
- Show you techniques to feel connection with yourself and your family
- Coach you into accepting who you are and having the confidence to show up as yourself
“The world needs more people to stand up and stand for freedom, whilst being assertive and raising decent human beings. The struggle is real.”
About me. Well I’m 50 shades of a human and 10 shades of woowoo. I have a daughter at primary school who took me 4 years to conceive.
I’m almost divorced and proud of that. I’ve done the big house, big business, big penis, big car, big shit life thing.
Just saying, there is more to life than big, like how you USE it!
Do You want change?
Lets close the gap you guys
Where you are now
- I need to fix this
- I’m ruining my children
- I’m a terrible mum
- I feel so gross
- Nobody understands me
- Nobody likes me
- Its all my fault
- I don’t deserve this
- This isn’t fair
- I hate my life
- I don’t know what to do
The thing is, what is going on inside your head is what has gotten you to this stuck and lost place.
Where you can go
- I can do this
- I feel good
- Its Ok, I’m OK
- I’m so excited
- Look how far I’ve come
- I did it
- I’m actually doing it
- I like myself
- I have so many friends
- I’m a good mum
i understand how you feel
Which means you are safe with me
I am FREE.
I feel empowered.
I support woman just like you.
I co-parent with ease.
I have fantastic friends.
Im happy you guys.
I’m the walking result. I’m the PROOF you have been looking for.
I want that for you too! To the point I cry when I hear yet another lonely woman’s story of abuse & infidelity.
I don’t want you to stay stuck anymore.
Truth be told, supporting people like you brings me immense purpose.
Join my program. I made it for YOU.
IT DOESN’T HAVE TO FEEL THIS BAD. XO
Are You Losing Your Shit With The Kids?
The thing is when we get to the point of lost we have usually lost the ability to trust ourselves and we have no idea what to do.
For alot of us we have been listening to other peoples ideas of how we should live and as much as we try, it feels like nothing we do is good enough.
There is so much noise about how to parent, spoiling our kids, let them cry, don’t let them cry, feed them milk, actually milks bad for them, breast is best, don’t co sleep that/s fucking them up, Fuck I wish everyone would shut up!
Alot of people I work with also have unspoken about relationship upsets. If we do have a partner lying to us or abusing substances and or us, we do feel crazy inside. We don’t trust our intuition. We can see the actions don’t match the words, but we want to believe in the words because the truth is too much for us to handle of our own, right?
And for the other side, the person having the affair who gets labeled as the dog. The one who is just looking for acceptance and understanding but now is riddled with guilt and anger. There is no trust in anything when you are lying to everyone around you.
We start to analyse everything others around us are doing to the point we drive ourselves fucking insane. But, we don’t change anything because we feel so stuck and have no idea how to start.
The truth is that underneath it all we feel super lonely, scared and unsupported. We feel like we are failing.
It hurts. It really hurts because we are actually good people. We don’t deserve to not feel happy. We don’t deserve to be lied to or be unsupported. We certainly don’t deserve to be betrayed! And what about our dreams and goals in life?
It hurts because we don’t want to hurt our partners if we choose to leave, and what is it going to do to the children you know. It paralyses us into no action.
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whats stopping you?
Maybe You Haven't Figured This Part Out Yet?
Not knowing how to have difficult conversations and how to be assertive ends up with us feeling used, unsupported or stuck. Lets work on that together.
Being unclear of who we are and what we want to do with our lives leaves us feeling too confused to even start. We will look into the future and work to create a vision for you to aim for.
When we are afraid of feeling our emotions and label them as bad we show up as 'too emotional'. Basically meaning our emotions dictate our lives. I teach empathetic parenting and the understanding of our emotions so we can use them as helpful little guides.
Sometimes when we feel a deep sense of loneliness we cover it up with business, relationships that don't fulfil us and a bunch of other behaviours. What we are actually looking for is connection and belonging. Ill highlight these patterns and ways that you can begin to feel content and make new friends.
Sometimes we can work ourselves up and promise we will get the house up to date, take the kids out for the morning and get a bunch of work done, but, when we wake up we are just so tired. I work with natural energy cycles, the moons energy cycles and all the elements and teach people how to plan life around these rather than continue breaking promises.
They most certainly do, but what they actually need is for you to be YOU. They are copying you already. If you are submissive and then wonder why they are being bullied at school I will show you what action to take within yourself to address this. The children need you to be solid and loving inside yourself so that you can be thier safe place in this scary life.
What people are saying
I Know You Want Your Children To Be Loved
We all want that
I have a great relationship with my daughters father and at the time of our break up I hated him. Better still, she has a close deep connecting relationship with him.
I have my own business where I get to support people through the dark times. I feel purposeful. Like I believe I am living in my life's purpose. I feel ALIVE. I feel like a woman with a mission to bring our people home to themselves. I wont lie to you. I wont ask you to do something I couldn't do. I wont growl you or be disappointing by you. I wont break a promise. And this I promise you If YOU do the work I guide you to do, YOU WILL start to feel happiness and you will feel lighter and more confident. -April B
How To Decide If Coaching Is For You
Step 1 – Apply for coaching via written form or book a free chat
We will figure out where you are at, what you are wanting, if we are a good fit and then choose the correct program for you.
That’s it. No obligations. No pressure.
"Awareness is not enough, you must make some moves" - April B
Programs of mine
Through the dark is a 6 month support program designed by and lead by me to take you from dark to light in mind, body and spirit.
I will walk beside you whilst you figure out what you want, need and desire. I will be there while you make the moves to get what it is you require. And I will cheer you on every time you get closer to freedom.
This program will give you in depth knowledge, strategies and the inner beliefs you need to level up your confidence and parenting skills to create the family dynamics you are proud of.
I believe that in natural parenting we have a level of freedom that is second to none!
There is another way.
You can choose to continue being stuck, or you can choose to make some moves.
If you need something more, apply for my co-hosted retreat program.
Clarity online group program is designed for people looking who are unsure what to do. For the people who say “I don’t know” alot.
I will facilitate the group whilst encouraging you to connect with each other so you don’t have to feel so lonely anymore.
We will take a look at whats going on inside our minds and how that shows up in our emotions and daily actions.
What our boundaries look like. Who even are we? What are we searching for? And who we desire to be?
You dont have to stay in the dark not knowing what to do.
There is a way forward.
This interactive online workshop will be co-hosted, where we will look at what it is you are working towards bringing into your life.
We will give tools and strategies to actually making this a reality so you can live your best life.
This is a fun workshop held on the new moon so you can take advantage of the natural earths energies to amplify and speed up the manifesting in your life.
We also host a full moon group to letting go and clearing the blocks that stop us from achieving our desires.
If you need something more you can apply to join my Clarity or Boundaries group programs.
Full moon Group is about letting go of what no longer serves us so we can create space for things that we want.
And furthermore, it is about digging deeper to find what it is that it is that we need to let go of.
This online support group is co-hosted and is super fun. We piggy bank off the moons powerful energies and we get down to business.
There are practical tools to move us through letting go, and also some fun energetic tools.
We also host a new moon group for creating new magic in our lives.
If you need more personalised support apply for my 1:1 program.
This powerful program features guests to bring a variety of modalities for you to start moving out of the dark times into the happy times.
We want you to feel love for life again and parent your children as powerfully as you can.
I will power coach you 1:1 so you can gain clarity to where you are right now and where you wish to end up by the end of the program (Aprox 12 weeks).
Sarah Kelt a RTT specialist who trained with Marissa Peers will facilitate 1:1 hypnotherapy sessions with you to clear limiting beliefs.
Together we will host online group sessions where we will give you practical activites to move you into more courage and confidence.
Then we will spend a few nights together here in New Zealand doing transformational work and forming friendships so you are not alone when the program ends.
After the retreat we will do follow up group sessions to ensure everyone has a game plan and a vision of where they are heading.
There will be a Bali retreat we host later in the year that you will automatically be eligible to attend.
We will also both offer ‘tribe pricing’ follow up support programs.
There is limited spaces in this powerful program and it is for the parent who is sick of the lie they are living and is ready to stand up for themselves.
If you are looking for 1:1 coaching only please look into the All In Nurture Program.